I am walking alongside my relationship with saying “no”, setting boundaries and living in the life designed for me that is aligned with not only my lane but my purpose. I don’t always get it right. I misstep. The universe reveals the lesson and I try again.
Over the past two years I have declined invitations to more open doors and opportunities than I did in all my previous decades of existence. Saying “no” is also my responsibility in minimizing my harm I co-create with white cisheteropatriarchal supremacy culture; and I am growing to hold that saying “no” is only part of the narrative — there is much nuance to understand.
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